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The First Shy Glance Exchanged, The Electrical Pulse Of A Tentative Touch...Was It Love At First Site? Or Lust Personified? Real Life Or Day Dreams...Its A Magical Moment. We've Included "How We Met Our Mates", As Well As Romantic Thoughts From Day Dreams. We Hope You Enjoy This Peek Into Our World.

How NoDancin' Met MrsNoDancin':

How I met my lady. It was so romantic. I met her at a party and asked her if she wanted to go for a ride. I told her I had to go pick someone else who was coming to the party. It seems I forgot to tell her I was picking up my old girlfriend I had just broken up with the week before. Uh Oh! Well we got back to the party where the ex-girlfriend said, "Take me home NOW!." My future spouse got out of the car, I think without even opening the doors. Then I caught Hell from the Ex taking her home then more Hell from my wife to be when I got back to the party. Gee! Women go figure. Well she still agreed to go out with me and 25 years later, she still is. :-)

How SIRENsong Met Her Dream Guy :

A few months before I met him, I wrote down everything that I would love to find in a guy. My friend looked at it and said, "He doesn't exist." Well, one day in a college english class, he walked in and proved my friend wrong. He was everything I could ever want in a man, and believe me, that list was long. We began dating two months after we met, and eleven months later, we got married. It has been wedded bliss for nearly ten years and counting. Funny, he remembers talking to his dad long ago about not dating anyone. His dad told him, "Ah, who knows, maybe you'll meet someone in an english class or something." Now, I wish I could share how he proposed, hoping it would be something so sweet. But, as the 'O' would have it, he proposed to me in his bed. Yes, there was something rock hard in his hand - my sparkly ring. And the rest is orgasmic history!


SeaLane's Sets The Mood For A Perfect Date :

SeaLane has visions of her & her guy on a balcony, lounging side by side on a double chaise, overlooking the water, a sea or a lake, in the early evening. We would be enjoying finger food delicasies that we playfully feed one another -- Tasty little morsels such as cold shrimp dipped in cocktail sauce, fried cheese pastries, tiny heart shaped cakes. I love cheesecake drizzled with strawberries or raspberries, chocolate mousse, cherry tarts, an exquisite tray with tropical fruits & a rum dip, sipping a cool drink that is served in a pineapple with 2 straws or champagne or white wine. I enjoy the simple sounds of the seagulls crying & the gentle waves lapping on the shore just below.

Pandabare's Bet & What She Won!

When I met my husband 20 years ago I was 18 and he was 21. I was at work on a new job and there he was up on a ladder. He worked for the fire department doing building inspections and boy did he look good in that uniform. I thought he was probably not even interested in anyone around the job. However one of the other girls also thought he was really cute and so we made a bet to who would go out with him. Boy was I steamed when I found out before the end of the first day he was giving her a ride home. Suddenly I remembered of course I needed a ride too. After we dropped her off I asked this guy who I hardly knew if he would mind taking me by the store so he did and he waited for me the whole time while I did my grocery shopping.

It was better than taking the bus anyway, and from that time on he picked me up for work every morning and gave me a ride home every night. On our first date we went to a wedding for another co-worker and it was so funny because yet another girl was interested and asked for a ride to the wedding not knowing he had a date already. Imagine her surprise when we picked her up that day, never did find out how she got home. It was a great date but he was very quiet and shy.

We went out almost a month before he ever kissed me. But let me tell you the kiss didn't end when it finally came. Our first date alone was the best date we ever had I think. He took me to his place and fixed a wonderful steak dinner with soft music and a warm fire. It was so wonderful that he was romantic and he could cook ! WOW! This was the guy for me. It took us a month to kiss but only six months to get married and we have stayed that way ever since.

We believe we found true love (you know the kind everyone wants) with each other. A once in a lifetime relationship that is worth growing old for. So on Valentines Day I hope everyone can be with or find the love we have. I will find a sweet something on my pillow that day and I hope you do too!

The Story Of How Q Met MrsQ :

Q and I meet at work. We didn't work together, but my security gate and his work area were only separated by a chain link fence. The first thing I noticed about Q was his hair. It was the end of the summer and his hair was almost white blond. I didn't even get to see his face for a while. I just saw this fellas back as he went in and out of this building. One day I heard his radio turned up really loud. He was listening to the same station I was so I heard it in stereo. The next time he came out of his building he looked towards my shack and I yelled at him about hearing the radio in stereo. Well, his was so loud he couldn't hear me so i HAD to go to the fence to talk to him..HEEHEE...(and so it begins) For a week or so we would wave at each other, catch each other watching the other, and have brief talks between jobs, and of course we emailed each other. It took him almost two weeks before he asked me out on our first date. I was really excited the night of our date. THEN HE CALLED TO CANCEL! I could have shot him. He had a good reason I see now..but at the time I was really upset. He came over the next night and made up for it tho. On Christmas Day (three months later) he moved in with me. I knew that I had found my soul mate. Q is a very romantic guy. He TRIED to cook for me one night. Steak and potatoes. Well, when I came in the door my kitchen was a wreck. I was so flattered that he was trying to do this for me I didn't even get upset. (I LOVE YOU HONEY) that was the worst meal I ever ate. LOL.. The meat was raw, and the potato was too. LOL.. Needless to say the gourmet he's not. But it was the fact that he tried that made me melt. He brings me flowers from time to time for no reason. He cleans the house on his days off and even DOES THE DISHES. That is love to me. All the little things you do for someone to show them how much you care. We were married this past November. That was the happiest day of my life. This Valentines is going to be so special to me. Just because I will be with him.

How WetNWildD Got Her "Guy"! :

I was working my summer job at a gas station, taking money. I was a teacher during the school year and decided to do a no brainer over the summer. It turned out to be the greatest summer job! I got hit on all summer. One evening in July this guy comes in and smiled at me as he payed for his gas. I smiled back and as he was about to go out the door, he turned around and blew me a kiss! I smiled and off he went. A couple hours later that same evening, the same guy came back and came into the station and asked me if I would go out with him if he asked me. I told him yes I would. So then he asked me if I would go out with him the following weekend. I accepted and when the night of our date came I was ready! He came to the door and I invited him in. After some discussion we decided to go see a movie, but somehow, we got a little distracted and never made it to the movie! That guy and I have now been married 17 years in July :) Happy Valentine's Day Everyone!!! :) :*

How Arlena Met Her Gorn :

I'm a Sci-Fi nut and I was headed to a convention at the Universal Sheraton for the Thanksgiving weekend 1982, in Studio City, CA. I was with my boyfriend Larry (at the time), my best friend "Princess" Leah, and her BF (at the time). We were going to hook up with friends from the LA area that we had met at previous conventions. One was my pal "Grimsblade" Chung. He called our hotel room and said he and a friend were coming upstairs. At the time, I was engaged in a game of blowing up condoms like balloons, and floating them out the window. That was "THEGorn's" first impression of me.

There must have been something about him, because after the Con was over and we had gone home, I wrote in my diary : Met Grimsblade's friend THEGorn!!! :))))) YES, I had exclamations and happy faces in there too! We were pen pals for a year or so; I remember calling to talk to him once and his Mother answering, so I talked to her. From that one phone conversation, she remembered me for years. He and I lost track of each other after that.

Jump ahead to Thanksgiving weekend, 1988. Princess and I are flying solo to the very same convention, but this time its in Pasadena, CA. We were eating breakfast in the hotel's restaurant, when we felt like someone was watching us. Actually, it was three someone's. It was our friend "Gouley" and two other guys, nose pressed to the windows, watching us. We invited them to join us. There was something familiar about the big tall guy. We remembered where and how we met, and hung out the rest of the weekend. Before heading back to Santa Barbara where I lived, we exchanged phone numbers. He was supposed to go out on a date that night, but I called him when I got home anyway. I just couldn't get him out of my head.

Two weeks later I had ditched the then current boyfriend and THEGorn and I became a couple. I commuted to LA back and forth every weekend for two years, and in 1990, we moved into an apartment together here in Santa Barbara. We just celebrated 10 years together. He is my lifemate, and my other half. We complete each other.

Net To RL : How DarBaby Met Bojangle 
 
I know that many people have experienced
lots of heartaches and bad times on the
internet, but I am about to tell you a story
that will hopefully put back the faith in those
of you that have given up on ever finding love
on the internet. I have to take you back to the
fall of 1996. 

Anyone that knew me then knows that I lived
on line. I like many of you had cyber sweeties,
some more serious than others. I had just
recently had a falling out with one of those
sweeties. I was hanging out in #Blacklace at the
time and a nick appeared that made me smile.

The nick was Bojangle. You see, Bo and I had chatted in channel from time to time and he always made me laugh, even at my lowest times. It happens that he had recently ended a relationship that had started on line. As the next couple of weeks went by most of my time was spent in Dcc with Bo. Many of you know what that usually leads to... No not cyber....he asked if he could call me.

We talked for several hours. After many hours and many expensive phone bills, Bo made a trip to New York from California in January of 1997 for my 30th birthday. The visit was a huge success. I never had met anyone that made me feel more alive. He rekindled emotions that I thought I had buried forever. I made a trip to California the following month for Valentines Day. After my trip to California, we did a lot of talking and it was decided.....I was moving to California.

Well that was almost two years ago and although some people thought it would never work....Im happy to report that we got engaged on my birthday (January 10th 1999) Thats exactly two years after the first time we met face to face. We are going to exchange vows February 13th and begin our lifetime journey together. Please keep the faith....the right person IS out there for you. All good things come to those that wait.

Congratulations to Dar & Bo. Their One Year Anniversary Is The Day BEFORE Valentines...
February 13th, 2000!!
Best Wishes From All Of Us At #Sugar&Spice!!





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